Start Your Own Marriage Traditions

After the wedding, begin starting new traditions and celebrating milestones. Married life is an adventure. Unlike wedding planning, there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to how to proceed. After the wedding, pick and choose the traditions that mean a lot to you and your spouse. Have fun taking advantage of the new opportunities you have as man and wife.

Here are some ideas to get you started.

Keep a Record of Married Life
As you and your spouse enjoy your first holidays together and begin your own marriage and wedding traditions, record these special milestones. By recording the milestones of your married life, you’ll give yourself time to reflect on and appreciate your marriage. Use your creativity and style to find the best way to keep a record of married life.

  • If you’re crafty, there’s never been a better time to start scrapbooking. Scrapbooking classes and materials are available at all major arts and crafts stores.
  • If you love to write, keep a handwritten journal or start a blog online to document your life together. Share it with your friends, or keep it private.
  • If you’re great with photography, try publishing photos online or printing them in a series of photo albums.

Host a Holiday Gathering
Invite your family and friends to celebrate a holiday at your home. This can be a wonderful opportunity to connect with friends and family who may not have seen you since right after the wedding.

  • Use the table settings, cutlery or kitchen appliances you received as wedding gifts. Your family will love seeing gifts being used.
  • Connect with your spouse’s heritage through culinary tradition. Try cooking a traditional family recipe—from your husband’s family.
  • Take time before the holidays to discuss which traditions you’d like to embrace from your upbringing and from your husband’s.

Go on a Family Trip
Your honeymoon was all about romance and passion. Next time you travel, approach it as a family adventure. As you travel together, communicate and learn about each other’s upbringing and family before married life.

  • Visit family, but stay in a hotel. Balance the time you spend visiting with time spent together decompressing.
  • If you don’t visit relatives, try traveling to a vacation destination that meant a lot to you or your spouse as a child.
  • Take a weekend road trip together. Load up your MP3 player with songs you loved while you were dating.

Decorate Your Home
Now that you and your husband share a space together as man and wife, make it your own. Decorating is a classic family tradition, especially around the holidays. Try to make decorating decisions as a couple as often as you can.

  • Display pictures from your wedding. Make the most of your wedding photographer investment by framing prints. Your guests will love seeing the photos.
  • Spice up your bedroom. Make your bedroom a true sanctuary by splurging on luxurious linens and alluring décor.
  • Decorate seasonally. Pick up new holiday decorations and combine them with hand-me-down family pieces to decorate your home for Halloween, Thanksgiving and the Christmas holiday season. Hang lights together, and don’t forget to take pictures.


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