Music that Sets the Right Tone
Tips on Choosing Your DJ and Setlist
The first major music decision you will have to make is whether to have live wedding music or to hire a DJ. There are benefits and drawbacks to both. Having a live band at your wedding is fun and festive; however, this is typically expensive and not always an option for everyone. You can have a fabulous reception if you choose the right DJ. Just be sure to do thorough research on wedding music ideas beforehand.
- If you really want some type of live music at your wedding but are weary of the cost, consider hiring someone to play music (such as a harpist) for your ceremony, then hiring a DJ to do the reception. If you have friends that play instruments, consider asking them to perform.
Choose the Right DJ
If you decide to go with a DJ, it is important to meet with him or her in person on a few separate occasions. People give off certain vibes, and you want someone that gives off the type of vibe you want at your wedding. This is a time to go with your instinct about a person.
- Ask someone you trust if they can recommend a DJ. You want someone who is reliable and who knows how to be a “master of ceremonies.” The DJ is responsible for keeping energy levels up and setting the pace of the reception. Remember that the time will fly by, and most people only have a few short hours at their venue.
- Choose a DJ who has experience with weddings that are similar in size and atmosphere to yours.
- Choose someone who is familiar with the type of venue you are using, for two reasons: 1) the nature of the venue’s space can drastically affect the way a DJ sets up his or her equipment, and 2) venues often have regulations or restrictions regarding music. Make sure that you know anything of this nature well in advance of your reception.
Choose Songs that are Meaningful and Appropriate
Strike the right balance between crowd pleasers and music that is special to you.
- Even though your favorite band might be Radiohead, their music is not the appropriate genre to be played throughout a celebratory occasion. Remember that a wedding is not the time to showcase your identity through your cutting edge taste in music; rather, choose music that you enjoy, but music that will also set the right mood and atmosphere for this type of event.
- When considering wedding music ideas for the first dance, it is extremely important that the bride and groom practice dancing to a few different contending songs. Choose a song that feels right, one that both of you are comfortable dancing to.
- Remember that many top wedding songs have been recorded by different artists, and you should listen to each version to figure out which has the best rhythm. A song such as The Way You Look Tonight has been recorded by Frank Sinatra, Michael Bublé, Rod Stewart, Billie Holiday, Steve Tyrell, and others. Also, do not choose your first dance song based on what is trendy at the moment, unless it is a song that you both love or has special meaning to you.
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